The Psychology of Indian Marriage

 Why people are getting married by default.  Is it necessary or is there any alternative.

What is the reason behind marriage.
This is view is based on my personal experience only. I'm not a psychologist or Marriage expert. I'm just average Indian Male who went through typical Indian Marriage system. After 15 years of married life, I'm sharing my thoughts, which may be helpful to other new comers.


This article is useful for people who want get married. But not so much of a use who already married, as they will be knowing all the points I'm going to tell. I'm sharing these views mainly because people are not getting proper information before getting married. They are just getting carried away by the thought of marriage. Thinking its some kind of bliss full life ahead.

Every person may have different opinions about marriage. For example a happily married guy and a guy having rough marriage may give entirely different view on marriage.  Then how to know which one is true? It is up to us infer the truth. Truth is a pathless land. It cannot be told. It has to be known and understood.
A woman's view might be completely different. I really don't know how they think, so I don't want to comment on that.

Here I'm not going to tell whether I'm a happily married or not. But try to tell some facts I observed.
You read it and see whether they make any sense.. I'm not forcing anything upon you. if you feel its true take it or just ignore it.

whether to marry or not is a different question. For now lets limit our topic only to marriage.
Things to know before getting married.

to be continued..